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21 June 2011

It's Kinda Funny...

I know we have only been married for 11 days but being married is already a bit different. Sure you still know each other the same, but you tend to take it into account more. There is a lot more thinking before speaking that goes on. And there is a lot more speaking as well.
Carter and Carter-Cash's guitars
National Music Museum, Vermillion SD
Communication for us has increased on a lot of things like what to name the kids and where to take them on vacation. We also have an open stream of commentary about the wedding here and there. And then comfortable silence settles into cozy places between talking.
We always have it in the front of our minds no matter what we are doing that we want to make the other happy. Faced with the legally recognized permanence of our choice to live one life together, I can already tell that we know it is what you make it.
And we're making it great. It truly takes each day of trying each minute but it is so worth it.
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9 comments:

  1. The Vintage Modern BrideJune 21, 2011 at 5:34 PM

    yay! i'm so happy for you guys ;)

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  2. Lissa (The Wedding Bistro at Bellenza)June 22, 2011 at 8:50 AM

    It's great that you're so insightful about your relationship. Wishing you every happiness!

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  3. HiLLjOJune 22, 2011 at 12:52 PM

    @Thanks Ladies!!! It's funny how something new in your relationship changes things a bit at first; I can imagine the ripples echoing into the years of our marriage as they go by...

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  4. Minnie KitchenJune 22, 2011 at 1:01 PM

    enjoy!! don't forget to tell him to put down the toilet seat :)

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  5. Andrea RehJune 22, 2011 at 6:31 PM

    Congratulations!

    Just discovered your blog, would love it if you popped by mine sometime.

    Andrea x
    andreareh.blogspot.com

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  6. Something Old, Something NewJune 23, 2011 at 7:32 AM

    Yay, so great! A BIG congrats to you guys :)

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  7. DianaJune 23, 2011 at 10:32 PM

    AWWW!! I love that you are talking about kids! SO happy for your guys! Im jealous that you got to see Johnny Cash's guitar! :)

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  8. Saying I doJune 24, 2011 at 9:19 AM

    I am so unbelievably happy too...we keep saying "Wow! we're married!" and just so content..and calm...and HAPPY! Glad you are feeling it too :)!!

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  9. HiLLjOJune 24, 2011 at 12:47 PM

    :oD

    The goodness could be written about everyday.
    Today:
    H:I have to buy breakfast supplies for work. I'm going to the store bunny.
    S: Wait, I'll come, too!
    H: Surprises him with a bowl of breakfast made with supplies before he leaves for work.
    S: Offers to pick up buns for pulled pork dinner for me because he'll "be at the store depositing his check anyway."

    I love my husband.

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