Think about if the tables were turned around here, ladies. Say your fiance gives you a present on your wedding day in the form of a photo book. You open it and it's him losing more and more clothes until he's in his underoos. My first reaction would not be MEee-Ow! It would be, "Who took these. Seriously." So when your hubby gets his boudoir photos of you, beware the "whosawyoulikethisotherthanme?!" reaction because honestly, he's right.
Just because you're getting married doesn't make it okay for some photographer to see you in lingerie that should be a surprise reserved for your Love., Just because it's someone's job doesn't mean they wouldn't latently enjoy you prancing around while you're in denial because "they're a professional." People are people, lingerie is lingerie, and wearing it alone with someone you're not supposed to is wrong. This is my opinion, my blog and this is what we're wearing over here.
PPS: I'm especially inspired to write this post because I have been seeing some gals that will post their boudoir sessions or submit them to other blogs to post up for everyone to see. That is especially disgusting.
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Ha! Hindsight Groom and I just had this conversation after looking at some particularly hot pictures over at The Knotty Bride. I chuckled when his eyes popped out of his head and he asked what I was looking at on the computer. "Wedding stuff" I replied as nonchalantly as possible, but I couldn't repress a giggle. In general Hindsight Groom is very supportive of my blogging, but at the end of the day, he can;t wrap his head around the fact that I'm still wedding obsessed after a year and a half of marriage.
Anyway, the conversation turned to to whether or not he would like something like that: He wouldn't care. Would he pose in his skivvies for me: If it meant that much to me yes. What would our future children say? That was the clincher. We both know kids can get into everything. The thought that one of my kids, young or adolescent, would stumble upon my racy nudie pictures stopped my blood cold. I'm much too shy for that!
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