Love and Comfort

120 Days Left!!!

Today is the 4 month point! Only half the engagement is left! 2 months ago I said it would go fast and it really is. All we have to do is go price flowers and find clothes for the bridal party. I've started my DIY stuff so I'll be sharing that soon with lots and lots of pictures!

 
I have one thing we can talk about today that you won't find in wedding magazines. Now I'm not going all mushy-gushy I love Shawnie on everyone, we're just going to stay general.

You know that feeling when you first fall in love? It's like the best thing in the world to some. Sometimes it goes away, sometimes it fades, and less often it stays.
Sometimes the feeling gets replaced by something better: comfort based in trust. There's a difference between I-don't-give-a-crap-anymore comfort and I-trust-you-so-much-I-feel-comfortable-with-us-just-Being.
When you have a boyfriend you wonder "Is he mad? Will he break up with me?"
When you have a husband or future husband you think "Is he mad? We'll work it out, there's nothing that can be that bad!"
The trust is present like a physical entity at all times and screams "IDIOT" at you when you have doubt in your mind about anything.
It's true there's nothing like that feeling of new love, but I'll tell you, the feeling the presence of honesty and truth I have found with a relationship based in Love is so much more grand.