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05 January 2012

I, for one, love my husband.



I resisted Pinterest ALL day. I made my bloggy reading-and-commenting rounds and continued working today instead of logging on... until 5 minutes ago!

What a mistake that was.

All I get from Pinterest is pissed off anymore. There is a slew of people making light of talking bad about their partners, and specifically husbands, on there in the form of repins of stupid quotes.

For the Husbands!

:-)

I can't take more than citing just 2 Pins I disagree with here. It's not that I don't have a sense of humor because trust me, I DO. But to me, it is the equivalent of men reducing women to their appearance to reduce a man to his faults.
I, for one, love my husband. So. Damn. Much.
To make light of his emotions and to not take into account how much he does for us would be a crying shame. Partners need to raise up each other with love and kindness and appreciation.
My husband is a man of character and that is why I wanted to marry him. I didn't want to get married before I knew him, but after I met him I only wanted to be married to him.
If we disagree, we argue with respect for each other and work through our differences. That doesn't mean one bends to the ideas of the other; it means we respect each other enough to let the other own their own thoughts.
My husband cannot be nagged. No one likes it, so why would he? If he was going to do something around the house and he has not done it yet, I simply (READ:)Let. It. Go. 10 times out of 10 the next time I think about it, he has already done it.
My husband is my best friend and he teaches me so many things by sharing what he learns about the world. He reads everyday. He researches for the sake of knowing something for himself. He is truly intelligent for seeking information for no other purpose than his own curiosity. He has taught me so much, and I hope what I'm sharing with him teaches him, too.
My husband is cool. He has style; he never wears jeans, just Dickies pants. I really love how he dresses as an individual. He likes good music that we both enjoy and has introduced me to bands I love who I'd never heard of before. He is open minded and open hearted and this just allows all kinds of cool things to rush in.
My husband encourages me by always believing in me. He sees how determined I get about so many things, and he never undermines it with reality. He's just there for me when I fall short to remind me of how far I got when I started with nothing.
My husband loves me. He shows and tells me everyday. Do you know what he told me this morning? That he keeps thinking about how I look when I smile and how precious I am to him. Yes, he is real.

So join me in my challenge to you, dear readers: RISE UP AND LOVE YOUR PARTNER. Be a true partner to your spouse, fiance/e, boyfriend, girlfriend, and show the world that "They are More."

11 comments:

Heather said...Reply to comment

Great post, and important message. My husband cooks, cleans and does all kinds of things that don't fit with the common male "stereotype." I agree that while it's OK to have a sense of humor about things, stereotypes are far too rampant on both sides.

Jamie said...Reply to comment

Hillary I am so glad you posted this and could not agree with you more! I cannot imagine a life without my wonderful hubby and count my blessings each and every day for having him in my life. I think more relationships have problems because they do degrade (even in jest) their spouses (or significant other) instead of raising them up. Good for you for standing up for your man!

XOXO,
Jamie
http://ilookgoodtoday.com

Anonymous said...Reply to comment

I am starting year 26 being married and you will get there in no time with an attitude like this! Raise EACH OTHER up!

HiLLjO said...Reply to comment

@Heather, that is exactly right. Hopefully ladies like the 3 that commented here are a lot less few-and-far-between than I thought.

HiLLjO said...Reply to comment

@Jamie I'm glad you enjoyed the post. True love is a big effing deal and you're right, even joking that it's not is wrong. XO!

HiLLjO said...Reply to comment

@Mary Beth, thank you for reading! And thank you for the amazing compliment.

jacin {lovely little details} said...Reply to comment

sounds like you're following the wrong people!!

HiLLjO said...Reply to comment

@Jacin, that could very well be. I just see these kinds of pins all over and I think people should think before pinning a bit more!

Unknown said...Reply to comment

EXACTLY! Great post! It's sad to see people didn't put enough thought into who they chose to partner with. I am so excited you have someone that is so special!

hugs! Kim @ Party Frosting!

iAmGawwy said...Reply to comment

I'm happy to see a post like this, me and my partner are now 5 years married and we just known each other for five months only before we decided to get married.

Lexi said...Reply to comment

Such a great post! And I totally love my hubby!
xx Lexi
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